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How to Build a Girl by Caitlin Moran: Exclusive Excerpt

Read Chapter 1 of the hilarious Brit’s new coming-of-age novel, about an awkward teen and “kissless virgin” who reinvents herself as a swaggering journalist and Lady Sex Adventurer

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Chapter 1

I am lying in bed next to my brother, Lupin. He is six years old. He is asleep. I am fourteen. I am not asleep. I am masturbating. I look at my brother and think, nobly, “This is what he would want. He would want me to be happy.” After all, he loves me. He wouldn’t want me to be stressed. And I love him—although I must stop thinking about him while I’m masturbating. It feels wrong. I am trying to get my freak on. I can’t have siblings wandering into my sexual hinterland. We may share a bed tonight—he left his bunk at midnight, crying, and got in next to me—but we cannot share a sexual hinterland. He needs to leave my consciousness.

“I have to do this on my own,” I say to him firmly in my head, placing a pillow between us for privacy. This is our little, friendly Berlin Wall. Sexually aware adolescents on one side (West Germany), six-year-old boys on the other (Communist Europe). The line must be held. It is only proper.

It’s little wonder I need to masturbate—today has been very stressful. The Old Man didn’t get famous, again.

Missing for two days, he returned this afternoon, just after lunch, with his arm around a disheveled young man, carbuncular, in a thin, gray, shiny suit and a pink tie.

“This cock,” my father said fondly, “is our future. Say hello to the future, kidders.”

We all politely said hello to the cock, our future.

In the hallway our father informed us, in a cloud of Guinness, that he believed the young man was a record company talent scout from London called Rock Perry—“although he might also be called Ian.”

We looked back at the man, sitting on our collapsing pink sofa in the front room. Ian was very drunk. He had his head in his hands, and his tie looked like it had been put on by an enemy, and was strangling him. He didn’t look like the future. He looked like 1984. In 1990, that was an ancient thing to be—even in Wolverhampton.

“Play this right, and we’ll be fucking millionaires,” our father said, in a loud whisper.

We ran into the garden to celebrate, me and Lupin. We swung on the swing together, planning our future.

My mother and my big brother Krissi, however, stayed silent. In our front room they had seen the future come—and go—before. The future always has different names, and different clothes, but the same thing happens, time after time: the future only comes to our house when it is drunk. The future must then be kept drunk—because the future must somehow be tricked into taking us with it when it leaves. We must hide ourselves in the fur of the future, like burrs—all seven of us—and ride its ass all the way out of this tiny house and back down to London, and fame, and riches, and parties, where we belong.

So far, this has never worked. The future has always eventually walked out of the door without us. We have been stuck now on a council estate in Wolverhampton for thirteen years, waiting. Five children now—the unexpected twins are three weeks old—and two adults. We have to get out of here soon. God, we have to get out of here soon. We cannot hold on, being poor and not-famous, much longer. The 1990s are a bad time to be poor and not-famous.

Back in the house, things are already going wrong. My mother’s hissed instruction to me—“Get in that kitchen, and bulk that bolognese out with peas! We’ve got guests!”—means I have now served Rock a plate of pasta—I curtsy a little when I hand it over—that he is shoveling into his mouth with all the passion of a man who desperately wants to sober up, aided only by petits pois.

With Rock trapped by the hot plate on his knees, my father is now standing unsteadily in front of him, doing his pitch. We know the pitch by heart.

“You never say the pitch,” the Old Man has explained, many times. “You are the pitch. You live the pitch. The pitch is when you let them know you’re one of them.

Looming over the guest, my father is holding a cassette in his hand.

“Son,” he says. “Mate. Allow me to introduce myself. I’m a man of . . . taste. Not wealth. Not yet—heh heh heh. And I have gathered you here today, to lay some truth on you. Because there are three men without whom none of us would be here today,” he continues, trying to open the cassette box with booze-swollen fingers. “The Holy Trinity. The alpha, epsilon, and omega of all right-thinking people. The Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost. The only three men I’ve ever loved. The Three Bobbies: Bobby Dylan. Bobby Marley. And Bobby Lennon.”

Rock Perry stares up at him—as confused as we all were the first time Dadda said this to us.

“And all every muso on earth is trying to do,” Dadda continues, “is get to the point where they could go up to these cunts in the pub and go, I hear you, mate. I hear you, mate. But can you hear me? You go to them, ‘You are a buffalo soldier, Bobby. You are Mr. Tambourine Man, Bobby. You are the fucking walrus, Bobby. I know that. But I—I am Pat Morrigan. And I am this.’ ”

My father finally gets the cassette out of the box, and waves it at Rock Perry.

“Do you know what this is, mate?” he asks Rock Perry. “A C90?” Rock asks. “Son, this is the last fifteen years of my life,” Dadda replies. He puts the cassette into Rock’s hands. “It doesn’t feel like it, does it? You wouldn’t think you could put a man’s whole life in your hands. But that’s what you’ve got there. I guess that makes you like a fucking giant, son. Do you like feeling like a giant?”

Rock Perry stares down blankly at the cassette in his hand. He looks like a man who feels quite confused.

“And you know what will make you like a king? Putting this out, and selling ten million copies of it on compact disc,” Dadda says. “It’s like alchemy. You and me, we can turn our lives into three fucking yachts each, and a Lamborghini, and more fanny than you can beat off with a stick. Music is like magic, cocker. Music can change your life. But before it does—Johanna, go and get this gentleman a drink.”

Dadda is now talking to me. “A drink?” I ask. “In the kitchen, in the kitchen,” he says irritably. “The drinks are in the kitchen, Johanna.” I go into the kitchen. Mum’s standing in there, wearily holding a baby.

“I’m going to bed,” she says. “But Daddy’s just about to get a record deal!” I say. Mum makes a noise that, in later years, Marge Simpson will become famous for. “He’s asked me to get a drink for Rock Perry,” I say, carrying the message with all the urgency that I feel it deserves. “But we don’t have any drink, do we?”

My mother gestures, with infinite fatigue, to the sideboard, on which stand two half-full pint glasses of Guinness.

“He brought them back. In his pockets,” she says. “Along with that pool cue.”

She gestures to the pool cue, stolen from the Red Lion, that is now propped up against the cooker. In our house, it looks as incongruous as a penguin.

“It was in his trousers. I don’t know how he does it.” She sighs. “We’ve still got one from the last time.”

It’s true. We do already have a stolen pool cue. As we don’t have a pool table—even Dadda can’t steal that—Lupin has been using the first stolen pool cue as Gandalf’s staff whenever we play Lord of the Rings.

This conversation about pool cues is interrupted when from the front room there is a sudden blast of volume. I recognize the song instantly—it’s Dadda’s latest demo, a song called “Dropping Bombs.” The audition has obviously begun.

Until very recently, “Dropping Bombs” had been a mid-tempo ballad—but then Dadda found the “reggae” setting on his Yamaha keyboard—“The fucking Bobby Marley button! Yes! Get in!”—and has reworked it accordingly.

It’s one of Dadda’s “political” songs, and it’s dead moving: the first three verses are written from the point of view of a nuclear bomb, being dropped on women and children in Vietnam, Korea, and Scotland. For three verses, the bomb impassively imagines the destruction it will cause—destruction narrated by Dadda, using a “robot” microphone effect.

Your skin will boil / And the people will toil / To make sense of it all / And crops from burnt soil,” the robot bomb says sadly.

In the last verse, the bomb suddenly realizes the error of its ways, rebels against the American forces that made it, and decides to explode in midair, showering the astonished, cowering people below with rainbows.

I was blowing people up—but now I’m blowing minds,” the last chorus runs, accompanied by a haunting riff played on Yamaha keyboard-voice number 44, “Oriental flute.”

Dadda thinks it’s his best song—he used to play it to us every night before bed, until Lupin started having nightmares about burning kids and started wetting the bed again.

I go into the front room, carrying the two half-full glasses, curtsying, and expecting to find Rock Perry enthusing wildly about “Dropping Bombs.” Instead, I find Dadda shouting at Rock Perry.

“That’s not on, mate,” he’s roaring over the music. “That’s not on.” “I’m sorry,” Rock says. “I didn’t mean—” “Nah,” Dadda says, shaking his head slowly. “Nah. You can’t say that. You just don’t say that.” Krissi, who has been sitting on the sofa all this time—holding the ketchup bottle, in case Rock Perry wants tomato sauce—fills me in, in a whisper. Apparently Rock Perry compared “Dropping Bombs” to “Another Day in Paradise” by Phil Collins, and Dadda has become furious. This is curious, because Dadda actually quite likes Phil Collins.

“But he’s not a Bobby,” Dadda is saying—lips tight and slightly foamy. “I’m talking about the revolution here. Not fucking no jackets required. I don’t care about fucking jackets. I don’t have a jacket. I don’t require you to not require a jacket.”

“I’m sorry—I just meant—I actually quite like Phil Collins . . .” Rock is saying miserably. But Dadda has already taken the plate of pasta off Rock and is pushing him toward the door.

“Go on then, you cunt,” he says. “Go on. You cunt. Can fuck off.”

Rock stands in the doorway unsteadily—unsure if this is a joke or not.

“No—you can fuck off, ” my father repeats. “You—fuck-y off-y.” He is saying this in a Chinese accent. I’m not quite sure why. In the hallway, my mother approaches Rock. “I’m so sorry,” she says, with a practiced air.

She looks around for some way to make it better—then picks up a bunch of bananas from a crate in the hallway. We always buy fruit in bulk, from the wholesale market. My dad has a fake ID card that asserts that the holder runs a corner shop in the village of Trysull. My dad does not run a corner shop in the village of Trysull.

“Please. Have these.”

For a moment, Rock Perry stares at my mother holding out a bunch of bananas. She is in the foreground of his vision. Behind her is my father, carefully turning up every setting on the stereo to its maximum.

“Just . . . one?” Rock Perry says, trying to be reasonable.

“Please,” my mother says, pushing the whole bunch into his hand.

Rock Perry takes them—clearly still utterly bewildered—and starts walking down our path. He’s only halfway down when my father appears in the doorway.

“Because—this is what I do!” he shouts to Rock.

Rock starts a gentle trot down the path and crosses the road in haste, still carrying his bananas.

“This is what I do! This is me!” Dadda continues to shout across the road. The neighbors’ net curtains are twitching. Mrs. Forsyth is out on her front doorstep, with her customary disapproval. “This is my fucking music! This is my soul!”

Rock Perry gets to the bus stop, over the road, and very slowly crouches down, until he’s hidden by a bush. He stays that way until the 512 arrives. I know, because I go upstairs, with Krissi, and we watch him from our bedroom window.

“What a waste of six bananas,” Krissi says. “I could have had those on my cereal all week. Great. Another irredeemably bland breakfast.”

“My fucking heart!” my father bellows, after the departing bus—banging his chest with his fist. “You know what you’re leaving here? My fucking heart!”

Half an Hour after the shouting—when “Dropping Bombs” ends, after its triumphal twelve-minute-long finale—my dad goes out again.

He is going out to top up his heart, back in the same pub where he found Rock Perry.

“Perhaps he’s going to see if Rock left behind a twin that he can also abuse?” Krissi says caustically.

The Old Man doesn’t come home until 1:00 a.m. We know when he comes home, because we hear him crash the van into the lilac tree on the drive. The clutch falls out, with a distinctive crunching sound. We know the sound of a clutch falling out of a Volkswagen caravanette. We have heard it many times before.

In the morning we come downstairs and find, in the middle of the front room, a large concrete statue in the shape of a fox. The statue does not have a head.

“It’s your mum’s anniversary present,” Dad explains, sitting on the back doorstep smoking and wearing my pink bathrobe, which is too small for him, and reveals his testicles. “I bloody love your mother.”

He smokes and looks up at the sky.

“One day we’ll all be kings,” he says. “I am the bastard son of Brendan Behan. And all these cunts will bow down to me.”

“What about Rock Perry?” I ask, after a minute or two of us considering this inevitable future. “Are you going to hear from him again?”

“I don’t deal with bullshitters, kidder,” my father says authoritatively, pulling the bathrobe closed and taking another drag on his cigarette.

We find out later—through Uncle Aled, who knows a man who knows a man—that Rock Perry is indeed a man called Ian, who is not a record company talent scout at all but in fact a cutlery salesman from Sheffield. The only “deal” he would ever be able to sort out for us is an eighty-eight-piece canteen of electroplated cutlery, £59, with an APR of 14.5 percent.

And so that’s why I’m lying in bed, next to Lupin, having this tiny, quiet wank. Half from stress, half from pleasure. For I am, as I have recorded in my diary, “a hopeless romantic.” If I can’t go on a date with a boy—I am fourteen; I have never gone on a date with a boy— then at least I can go on a date with me. A bed-date, i.e., a wank.

I come—thinking of the character Herbert Viola in Moonlighting, who I think has a kind facepull my nightie back down, kiss the sleeping Lupin, and go to sleep.

Excerpt from: How to Build a Girl by Caitlin Moran. © 2014 by Casa Bevron, Ltd. Published by HarperCollins Canada. All rights reserved. 

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