If the thought of pulling out a giant wand from the bedside table is uncomfortable, consider starting small, says Robin Milhausen, associate professor of family relations and human sexuality at the University of Guelph. A lot of new vibrators fit in the palm of your hand and if you’re still feeling shy, try introducing it as a massaging tool for the neck and shoulders, before migrating under the sheets.
Here are some small-scale options to consider:
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For those who want to start very small, there is the We-Vibe Tango — a “mini-vibe” that is about the size of a lipstick tube. $79, Amazon.
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