He messed up. Should you forgive him?
Here’s the situation: You’ve got a guy. You’re into him. He’s into you. Things are going well and you can see the two of you together for at least a little while longer. Great.
But then he screws up. Big-time. Whatever it is—a lie, a deception, a girl on the side—it’s major. What now? Forgive his blunder? Or send him on his way? If you forgive him, you may run the risk of being treated like a doormat. Send him packing and he might learn the error of his ways, clean up his act and be the perfect boyfriend— to someone other than you. (But I’m sure she’d thank you in her wedding speech.) When trying to decide whether or not to forgive him, consider these three things:
Should you forgive him?
Should you forgive him? You’ve got a guy. You’re into him. He’s into you.